theberliel

 There was a time when I was afraid that whatever I did wouldn't make him happy.  Anything that would happen and put him in danger would really scare me and make me feel bad.  It's not that I'm someone who has high walls or that I'm very negative, but it's more that I'm afraid of disappointing him with everything I do.  I hope you will be patient and accept me as I am, I try my best every day.  I hope we have a love that does not bring each other down, a love that is patient, strengthening and sincere.  Love,  Elista x

Hi handsome,  As I sit here and reflect on the incredible moments we've shared together, my heart fills with overwhelming gratitude and love.  Today, I want to take a moment to express my deepest appreciation for having you by my side.  You are not only my boyfriend but also my best friend, my confidant, and the person who completes me in ways I never thought possible. Thank you for being the constant source of love, support, and encouragement in my life.  Your unwavering belief in me has given me the strength to overcome challenges, pursue my dreams, and become a better version of myself.  Your presence brings me comfort and reassurance, and I am endlessly grateful for the stability and happiness you bring to my world. Your thoughtfulness and kindness never cease to amaze me. The way you pay attention to the smallest details and remember the things that matter to me truly make me feel cherished and valued.  Whether it's surprising me with all challenging a...

While I was living in Florida last year, my morning walk to go to workspace to get my breakfast and work hours included a street that was absolutely covered with stunning rose bushes.  Without fail, though I would be enjoying the gorgeous flowers one week, and the next there would be nothing but stubs. Every time the roses dissapeared, I wondered why.  Why trim something that appears to be blooming? Why kill something that still has life in it?  Roses, even those in peak bloom, have a season, with a time to grow and a time to lie dormant.  As they near the end of this season, the ends of their stems begin to die, and disease starts to take hold within the buds. Without proper pruning, this can suck the life from the rest of the plant. Lacking the attention of a trim, even healthy rose bushes grow wild, expanding beyond their purview, rampant, without the support of a solid center.  It seems counterintuitive, yes. But rose bushes need to be trimmed down...

What do you wish you’d known about love?  I used to think the kiss was the most romantic part of wedding. Now I listen to the vows and think, oh my gosh, you have no idea what’s coming. The best-case scenario is that you’ll still be together when one of you dies. What you’re really promising is to each other through difficult times — in sickness and in health. It’s very romantic to me that what you’re signing up for all of those hard things: the work of long-term love, the inevitable loss, the decision not to leave when things get tough, the beauty of suffering together. The romance is actually in the hard part, not the kiss. ♥ Why is it difficult for some people to ask for their needs to be met in a relationship?  For the last hundred years it so we’ve trained children not to ask for anything, because it is a nuisance. Children are told, “those that ask don’t get.” And then as an adult they think they’d be selfish if they said, “it makes me feel better when you text before yo...

Many of us experience a time in our lives when we feel lost.  During my trip to Europe again this time, I have been feeling that too inside of my heart.  (a piece of it — not a whole).  I have been enjoying my days as you could see that totally and absolutely great days.  I even stop doing my routines and even this activity aka writing that helps me a lot to release my emotions, anger, joy, sadness, all feelings. I am kind of person who loves to feel the feelings. I always believe that emotions are gifts, tiny moments to connect with yourself. And maybe, just maybe, if you stay with your feelings, a little light will find space to enter.  What I am doing now is do what I love, do it in the most exciting place possible, and make sure it helps people even yourself.  Everyone needs a hand. We all need a raise in life. Life can be challenging with so many ups and downs especially having to juggle between love, life and family.  Hard times will definitely s...

Having a good Manager is nothing short of a blessing.  A good boss can make your work life significantly better, and the impact of a good boss extends far beyond just work. Firstly, a good boss can make a huge difference in your day-to-day work life.  A good boss can provide you with clear expectations, feedback on your work, and support when you need it.  They can also help you develop your skills and provide you with opportunities for growth within your role.  With a good boss, you can feel more confident in your abilities and more motivated to do your best work. In addition to the benefits to your work life, a good boss can also impact your overall well-being.  Studies have shown that having a supportive boss can lead to lower levels of stress, greater job satisfaction, and better mental health.  A good boss can create a positive work environment, where you feel valued, respected, and supported. Furthermore, a good boss can be a valuable mentor and role ...

April: Be a month of ease. Of gentleness. Of less harsh realities & more soft, safe places to land. Of less struggle & more success.  Let us go easier on ourselves & on others, remembering that we are all only human & we are doing the best we can. 💕 I always believe that “tomorrow we try again” works well.  I always tell myself to let it all go: the mistakes, failures, frustration, tears, worries, doubts, heartaches, fears and try again tomorrow.  But I am not quite sure how to do it sometimes.  Set boundaries — with your heart, your time, your dating life.  I am sure that not everyone who knocks on the door of your life should be allowed in.  Elista, you really need to stop questioning your worth every time someone hurts you or does you wrong. Their bad behavior is THEIR character flaw, not yours.  I deserve to be someone’s first choice. I deserve to be cherished & not taken for granted. I deserve to be chosen & not settled fo...