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TRUE INTIMACY AND CONNECTION IS IMPORTANT OR FUN IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT?

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Many of us experience a time in our lives when we feel lost.  During my trip to Europe again this time, I have been feeling that too inside of my heart.  (a piece of it — not a whole).  I have been enjoying my days as you could see that totally and absolutely great days.  I even stop doing my routines and even this activity aka writing that helps me a lot to release my emotions, anger, joy, sadness, all feelings. I am kind of person who loves to feel the feelings. I always believe that emotions are gifts, tiny moments to connect with yourself. And maybe, just maybe, if you stay with your feelings, a little light will find space to enter.  What I am doing now is do what I love, do it in the most exciting place possible, and make sure it helps people even yourself.  Everyone needs a hand. We all need a raise in life. Life can be challenging with so many ups and downs especially having to juggle between love, life and family.  Hard times will definitely s...

A Good Manager — Blessing ?

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Having a good Manager is nothing short of a blessing.  A good boss can make your work life significantly better, and the impact of a good boss extends far beyond just work. Firstly, a good boss can make a huge difference in your day-to-day work life.  A good boss can provide you with clear expectations, feedback on your work, and support when you need it.  They can also help you develop your skills and provide you with opportunities for growth within your role.  With a good boss, you can feel more confident in your abilities and more motivated to do your best work. In addition to the benefits to your work life, a good boss can also impact your overall well-being.  Studies have shown that having a supportive boss can lead to lower levels of stress, greater job satisfaction, and better mental health.  A good boss can create a positive work environment, where you feel valued, respected, and supported. Furthermore, a good boss can be a valuable mentor and role ...

Second Draft

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April: Be a month of ease. Of gentleness. Of less harsh realities & more soft, safe places to land. Of less struggle & more success.  Let us go easier on ourselves & on others, remembering that we are all only human & we are doing the best we can. 💕 I always believe that “tomorrow we try again” works well.  I always tell myself to let it all go: the mistakes, failures, frustration, tears, worries, doubts, heartaches, fears and try again tomorrow.  But I am not quite sure how to do it sometimes.  Set boundaries — with your heart, your time, your dating life.  I am sure that not everyone who knocks on the door of your life should be allowed in.  Elista, you really need to stop questioning your worth every time someone hurts you or does you wrong. Their bad behavior is THEIR character flaw, not yours.  I deserve to be someone’s first choice. I deserve to be cherished & not taken for granted. I deserve to be chosen & not settled fo...